Today’s special guest is my best sober girlfriend and an elite colorist at the high end salon on 3rd street, Spoke & Weal.  Emily Neri has more than two decades of salon experience and more than 16 years of sober experience.  She is also a mom to an adorable 3 1/2 year old daughter, Harlow, and knows a thing or two about control and the insidious ways it shows up in her work life, parenting life, friendships and marriage.  Join us as we explore how to live in the gray versus the black and white, where the best and hardest things exist.